  {"id":168,"date":"2018-08-01T19:18:20","date_gmt":"2018-08-01T19:18:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eou.edu\/mountaineer-magazine\/?p=168"},"modified":"2019-04-24T21:48:14","modified_gmt":"2019-04-24T21:48:14","slug":"home-away-from-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eou.edu\/mountaineer-magazine\/home-away-from-home\/","title":{"rendered":"Home away from home"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" title=\"Fouad\" src=\"https:\/\/www.eou.edu\/mountaineer-magazine\/files\/2019\/04\/Fouad_Ajami-1998.jpg\" alt=\"Fouad\" width=\"300px\" height=\"auto\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Four college friends left Eastern Oregon College and scattered across the U.S.: Satwant lives in California now, Sami is outside Washington D.C., Riad\u2019s out in Ohio, and Sally lives near her mother in La Grande. But when they get together, it\u2019s like no time has passed at all.<\/p>\n<p>This year their reunion was inspired by Riad\u2019s \u201cdear, departed brother,\u201d Fouad Ajami, \u201968,who received the EOU Alumni Association\u2019s 2018 Distinguished Alumnus Award for his work as a scholar and political advisor on the world stage.<\/p>\n<p>The group gathered to receive the award at Homecoming and celebrate his memory. In 50 years of changing locations, occupations and relationships, they\u2019ve all held onto a special fondness for Eastern Oregon.<\/p>\n<p>Two of the bunch, Sally (Brownton) Wiens, \u201966, and her sister Carol, \u201964, grew up in La Grande, where their father was a well-known judge. Sally remembers bringing her friends from the International Student Club to her parents\u2019 neighborhood get-togethers, and said those bonds were an integral part of their experience.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019ve been a college town for so long,\u201d she said. \u201cWe know that we benefit from learning new things, and from the diversity people bring.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"quote lead\">\u201cWe\u2019ve been a college town for so long, we know that we benefit from learning new things and the diversity people bring.\u201d<\/div>\n<p>Sally enrolled at Eastern Oregon College in 1962, and Riad Ajami arrived in January 1963.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was the first person from the Middle East, from Lebanon, to attend Eastern,\u201d he said. \u201cPeople were kind, and I felt very welcomed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He had first seen information about Oregon at the John F. Kennedy Center in Lebanon, and sent a letter to the registrar at EOC. His father was on-board to let Riad study abroad, but he was thinking France or England would do.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI wanted the farthest place from home \u2014 Washington, Oregon or California,\u201d Riad said.<\/p>\n<p>He and his younger brother, Fouad, had heard that the U.S. was a place of freedom and opportunity. Plus, maybe they could meet Elvis.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_339\" style=\"width: 260px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eou.edu\/mountaineer-magazine\/files\/2018\/08\/Riad_EOUyearbook_1965_closeup.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-339\" class=\"wp-image-339\" src=\"https:\/\/www.eou.edu\/mountaineer-magazine\/files\/2018\/08\/Riad_EOUyearbook_1965_closeup.jpg\" alt=\"Riad Ajami in EOU's 1965 yearbook.\" width=\"250\" height=\"367\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-339\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Riad Ajami in EOU&#8217;s 1965 yearbook.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Riad and his new roommate, Satwant Singh Thind, didn\u2019t have much in common at first. Satwant, an international student from India and a member of the Sikh religion, wore turbans and a long beard, while Riad blended in more with his American peers.<\/p>\n<p>Riad remembers Satwant asking: \u201cYou always have dates on the weekends, what about me?\u201d Riad responded: \u201cSatwant, I cannot date you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>His first attempt to set Satwant up with a friend was thwarted by Satwant\u2019s heavily scented beard wax, as well as his pungent breath.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBetween girls and garlic, he\u2019d pick garlic,\u201d Riad said.<\/p>\n<p>Satwant eventually found a date who didn\u2019t mind his beard or his breath: Carol (Brownton) Lindsay. The two went together when Carol returned to EOC to finish her degree.<\/p>\n<p>On a trip to Walla Walla, Riad suggested that Satwant cut his beard and hair. But Satwant\u2019s parents would stop his allowance if the annual photo he sent revealed that he\u2019d shaved.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_338\" style=\"width: 261px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eou.edu\/mountaineer-magazine\/files\/2018\/08\/Satwant_EOUyearbook_1963_closeup2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-338\" class=\"wp-image-338\" src=\"https:\/\/www.eou.edu\/mountaineer-magazine\/files\/2018\/08\/Satwant_EOUyearbook_1963_closeup2.jpg\" alt=\"Satwant Thind in the 1963 yearbook.\" width=\"251\" height=\"294\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-338\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Satwant Thind in the 1963 yearbook.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u201cSo I brought six shirts and six turbans to a photographer, and we did photos with each different outfit,\u201d Riad said. \u201cI told him, \u2018Now your education is assured.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Satwant and Riad soon met the rest of the Browntons, and when the girls\u2019 parents embarked on a world tour in 1964, Riad\u2019s parents were ready and waiting to greet their son\u2019s American friends.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy dad attended a World Peace Through Law conference in Greece for a week,\u201d Sally said. \u201cAnd they made it a seven-week \u2019round-the-world trip, including a stop in Lebanon.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Riad\u2019s uncle, a member of the Lebanese parliament, greeted the Brownton\u2019s alongside the police chief, whose son Sami Asfahani was Riad\u2019s childhood friend. During that meal, Riad\u2019s parents found out their son wasn\u2019t studying medicine like he\u2019d promised, but was preparing for a career in engineering.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_340\" style=\"width: 299px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eou.edu\/mountaineer-magazine\/files\/2018\/08\/Sally_1969.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-340\" class=\"wp-image-340\" src=\"https:\/\/www.eou.edu\/mountaineer-magazine\/files\/2018\/08\/Sally_1969-789x800.jpg\" alt=\"Sally (Brownton) Wiens in the 1969 yearbook.\" width=\"289\" height=\"293\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-340\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sally (Brownton) Wiens in the 1969 yearbook.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u201cMy dad stopped sending me money,\u201d Riad said. \u201cHe read me the riot act, but it all worked out in the end.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Riad went on to graduate from Western Michigan University, and then earned his master\u2019s and doctorate degrees. He started as an assistant professor at Ohio State University, and has since held positions at prestigious institutions such as Harvard University. He is an expert on the petroleum economy, teaching at Wright State University while conducting research, publishing books, and hosting clinics around the world.<\/p>\n<p>But the Browntons\u2019 trip had other effects. Sami and Fouad decided to study in La Grande, too, and arrived in 1965.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSuddenly La Grande became a hub for Lebanese and Middle Eastern students,\u201d Riad said.<\/p>\n<p>He had taken a Greyhound bus from Portland to La Grande, and he suggested Sami do the same. But Sami and two other students had a different idea. They hired a taxi to drive them 260 miles from the Portland airport all the way to campus.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was in Hoke Hall trying to find coffee or Coke or a date or something, and this car pulls up that says Portland and Sami got out,\u201d Riad said. \u201cThe story started circulating in town about these rich foreign students who paid a taxi to drive them from Portland to La Grande.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fouad Ajami was a more serious student than his big brother, and graduated from EOC in just three years.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFouad was smarter than I\u2019ll ever be,\u201d Riad said.<\/p>\n<p>Riad\u2019s work earned him features in People magazine and on ABC News, but he said his brother\u2019s famous connections far outstripped his own. After earning his Ph.D. from the University of Washington and taught Middle Eastern Studies at Johns Hopkins University, Princeton University and Stanford University.<\/p>\n<p>He advised three sitting presidents and received the National Humanities Medal from George W. Bush in 2006. He was also a MacArthur Prize fellow and an advisor to Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnderson Cooper interviewed Fouad extensively on CNN,\u201d Riad said. \u201cHe knew more important people than most. He was my brother and my friend.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Riad has established a scholarship through the EOU Foundation to honor his brother\u2019s memory and his lasting connection to the region.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLa Grande was a wonderful place for us,\u201d Riad said. \u201cI love Eastern Oregon. 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